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[notrosecolored]

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[themisfit]

Historically, yes.

I worry a lot about intrusion, even where it almost certainly is not necessary.

[notrosecolored]

And maybe that makes it worth a 'joke'?

[themisfit]

Sorry?

[notrosecolored]

If nothing else it clarifies my feelings on the matter.

[themisfit]

And those are... the same already expressed? Different?

[notrosecolored]

You are not intruding. If anything we intruded on you

[themisfit]

Ah, no. You are fine. Where I am concerned, it has always been malleable.

I hardly considered the shape of it before I got here, even. I've had to have to potential and longevity of my own relationship pointed out to me more than once now.

[notrosecolored]

But your relationship with him's obviously been long term?

[themisfit]

Yes.

[notrosecolored]

Doesn't sound like you have a longevity problem to me.

[themisfit]

Yes, well I suppose I was going by
I don't know
Cumulative intimacy moments?

We're great friends.
I know that's ridiculous with everything laid out as it is here, but it's how I've thought of it for the majority of the time.

Anyway, it's not worth anyone else worrying over. It's silly.

[notrosecolored]

It isn't silly.

[themisfit]

Well, it at least isn't serious enough for anyone else to have to pay attention.

For what it's worth, I appreciate the thought that we might better integrate, if that's correct wording or a correct read at all. I feel aside, sometimes, in all of this. Not that I don't have my own things going on, mind!

Or, you know... Maybe I just like the attention.

[notrosecolored]

What I mostly want is you to feel like you're welcome and no one's.... 'spoken for'.

We all have our things going on.

[themisfit]

Of course.