[ Even through text this is. Kind of embarrassing by his standards but he's gonna do his best here. ]
Willing isn't the word I'd use because it isn't enthusiastic enough. I just didn't want to make you uncomfortable if I enjoyed it more than you did. I didn't actually think we were going to be quite that compatible.
Yes. You seem to enjoy telling me what to do in other contexts, but that not holding true in bed was a pleasant surprise.
And I guess I might as well ask now, since we're on the subject -- you once told me most mutants have extreme preferences. Is that true for you as well?
[ He doesn't deal with trauma that is his own, it's fine. ]
Again, degree of relationship for me enjoying it but speaking globally: I don't really care. I like ...deeper ache and things that register as heat more than anything that 'stings'?
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Date: 2022-07-16 09:17 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-07-16 09:21 pm (UTC)[ Even through text this is. Kind of embarrassing by his standards but he's gonna do his best here. ]
Willing isn't the word I'd use because it isn't enthusiastic enough. I just didn't want to make you uncomfortable if I enjoyed it more than you did. I didn't actually think we were going to be quite that compatible.
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Date: 2022-07-16 09:23 pm (UTC)Neither did I, but I'm glad we were.
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Date: 2022-07-16 09:36 pm (UTC)And I guess I might as well ask now, since we're on the subject -- you once told me most mutants have extreme preferences. Is that true for you as well?
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Date: 2022-07-16 09:44 pm (UTC)It can be, but not to a degree that it overcomes... practical safety very often.
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Date: 2022-07-16 09:47 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-07-16 09:55 pm (UTC)Relatively casually - bondage, without blindfolds, Pain, electricity, breath play.
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Date: 2022-07-16 09:59 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-07-16 10:00 pm (UTC)It's a sensation. How it gets implemented vary.
you realize I also just like sex, right?
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Date: 2022-07-16 10:20 pm (UTC)It didn't seem like you were faking, so yes, I realized. That doesn't mean I'm not willing to try things.
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Date: 2022-07-16 10:30 pm (UTC)What are you interested in trying?
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Date: 2022-07-16 10:38 pm (UTC)I'm familiar with everything but the electricity. I guess it depends on method, for pain?
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Date: 2022-07-16 10:43 pm (UTC)Again, degree of relationship for me enjoying it but speaking globally: I don't really care. I like ...deeper ache and things that register as heat more than anything that 'stings'?
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Date: 2022-07-16 10:50 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-07-16 11:08 pm (UTC)I'll still be bossing you around in general.
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Date: 2022-07-16 11:16 pm (UTC)Just be aware that in the times you hand over the reins I will make up for the rest.
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Date: 2022-07-16 11:25 pm (UTC)[ That's a dare. ]
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Date: 2022-07-16 11:26 pm (UTC)