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hippie_ninja
2022-09-26 06:58 pm (UTC)
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What are you like when you are being reactive? How big are your expressions?
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notrosecolored
2022-09-26 07:11 pm (UTC)
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It depends. What am I reacting to, who else is involved, what are the risks?
[ Dry and amused. ]
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hippie_ninja
2022-09-26 07:53 pm (UTC)
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Someone kills someone on your team. Or a lover. The plan is at stake. What do you do?
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notrosecolored
2022-09-26 07:56 pm (UTC)
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Adapt the plan to their absence.
That's not an individual scenario, Paul, it's a team one.
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hippie_ninja
2022-09-26 10:45 pm (UTC)
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How do you handle loss?
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notrosecolored
2022-09-26 10:50 pm (UTC)
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[Why did he invite this guy to question him? ]
I don't.
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hippie_ninja
2022-09-26 10:51 pm (UTC)
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You mean you don't lose?
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notrosecolored
2022-09-27 02:55 pm (UTC)
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No, I mean I don't deal with it when I do.
[ Dry and wry and self-depreciating. ]
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hippie_ninja
2022-09-27 03:21 pm (UTC)
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Well you'd fit right in at home.
I'm guessing there weren't grief resources where you're from?
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notrosecolored
2022-09-27 03:37 pm (UTC)
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My telepathic wife is a psychologist.
[ Sort of. Then there was Charles. ]
There's just no time for healthy coping when your survival is actually in question. Which I'm sure you get.
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hippie_ninja
2022-09-27 03:40 pm (UTC)
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Your wife being your psychologist would be a conflict of interest.
But I do get it. I'm wondering how well it works here--for those of us who are used to just pushing on when we lose people.
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notrosecolored
2022-10-01 12:54 pm (UTC)
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That probably depends entirely on how much you can see being here a crisis in and of itself.
[ Just, dry and kind of amused. ]
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hippie_ninja
2022-10-02 12:35 am (UTC)
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How do you categorize it?
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notrosecolored
2022-10-06 04:43 pm (UTC)
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Not much of one.
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That's not an individual scenario, Paul, it's a team one.
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How do you handle loss?
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I don't.
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[ Dry and wry and self-depreciating. ]
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I'm guessing there weren't grief resources where you're from?
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[ Sort of. Then there was Charles. ]
There's just no time for healthy coping when your survival is actually in question. Which I'm sure you get.
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But I do get it. I'm wondering how well it works here--for those of us who are used to just pushing on when we lose people.
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[ Just, dry and kind of amused. ]
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